10 Ways to Turn Yourself On
What turns you on and gets you in the mood?
These questions may be daunting because maybe you’ve never really thought about it. More likely you’ve thought about what turns your partner on. It is just as important to know what makes YOU hot… right?
One thing’s for sure, we know that getting in the mood can be challenging because life’s stressors can wreak havoc on our libidos.
Wondering how to turn yourself on is just as valuable and vital as wondering how to reduce stress in your life.
Some days, just seeing a pic of your celebrity crush might be enough to you going. Others, getting in the mood may not come so easily and that’s totally normal.
Getting in the mood is the first step!
Not horny? No problem.
Here are 10 things you can do to turn yourself on and make your sex life more satisfying.
1) Fantasize:
Your brain is your most powerful sex organ. Use it!
2) Read or listen to erotic literature:
The vivid descriptions can open up a whole new world of sexual experiences.
3) Explore some kinks and fetishes:
You might have a hidden kink that you have yet to explore such as, stimulating with ice cubes, bondage, or using sex toys in unusual ways.
4) Experiment with different kinds of orgasms:
The various parts of the clitoris the vagina, cervix, and nipples can unlock a lot of different pleasures. For example, you might find nipple stimulation in conjunction with clitoral stimulation will bring you to a whole new level.
5) Find the perfect vibrator:
Have fun exploring new sex toys. The simple act of browsing can instantly turn you on. Have you checked out Kathy’s Pics yet?
6) Masturbate:
Masturbate even if you’re not in the mood. Sometimes your body goes dormant. Masturbation might be the key to you blooming sexually.
7) Set the mood:
Turn the lights down low, pull out the fluffy pillows and blankets, light some candles and press play on the tunes that create a sensual ambiance.
8) Take a bath:
Grab your favorite bath bombs, oils and luxurious soaps and wash your private parts slowly… see where that takes you.
9) Put on some lingerie:
Then watch yourself strip down. It might feel like roll play at first, however, roll play can really get your juices flowing.
10) Watch ethical porn:
It’s a myth that women aren’t into porn. In fact, watching porn can help jump-start our libidos, and even empower us to try new things. Sure, Porn has a bad reputation and can even be offensive. That is why we suggest supporting ethical pornography. It’s a game changer.
Learning to turn yourself on is not just for the orgasm. Its about deepening your connection to your desires.
So, if you’re ready to heat things up, give one of these 10 suggestions a go! Pay attention to what works and what doesn’t. This is how you build your libido. Have fun, be safe and enjoy your personal experience in the best way possible.
