8 Simple Ways to Feel Sexy After 50

Is sexiness ageless?  According to the mainstream, sexiness trends ebb and flow but they always seem to put women in a box that MANY are left out of…  This is a primary reason many women have trouble feeling sexy as they go through the natural aging process, even though they should be embracing their amazing and accomplished bodies.

Are you one of the millions of women over 50 who have noticed that the world celebrates youth as though it is something human beings are supposed to attain forever??

This illusion has a spell over many women, and has caused a lot of self-esteem and confidence problems.

Thankfully, we are waking up to this… and there are whole range of sexy and stunning women over 50 who are changing the cultural stereotype.

Phew!

These thought leaders understand the value of feeling sexy, talking about sex, connecting to your changing body and letting go of the shame, and people, just like you, are jumping on board so we can all celebrate sexiness from all stages and walks of life in a positive and loving environment.

So what are these thought leaders talking about?

Here are 8 ways to BOOST YOUR SEXINESS right now:

 

1. Change your attitude.

Sexy has much less to do with appearance, and EVERYTHING to do with attitude. Confidence is sexy. If you feel and act like the beautiful, empowered woman that you are, then others will see you that way too.

2. Self-Love and Acceptance

As we get older you have more time to put yourself first and appreciate your body. There is so much to be positive about – your body, your hair, your curves, your strength – do not focus on the negatives.

3. Dress Up

When you look the part, you feel the part! Take some time to dress up, do your make up, wear something that makes you feel sexy. This doesn’t always mean sexy lingerie.  It could simply mean you put on close that make you feel like the goddess you are!

At fifty or beyond, we still want the option of dressing in a sexy, alluring and attractive way without trying to look younger and you are the one who decides what that might look like.

4. Go After Your Fantasies

What do you think about when you are alone, and sex comes to mind?  From using props, to positions, to sex in specific locations… fantasies come in all shapes and sizes and YOU are allowed to explore them.  A great way to spice up your sex life is to challenge your comfort zone. Move away from the things you are comfortable with, leave your usual sexual routine and change it up.

Explore your kinky side.

5. Put on Lingerie.

And not just any lingerie… some that fits your unique body and that you feel HOT wearing!  Lingerie is like a bathing suit… it’s not a one-size-fits-all situation.  So don’t feel weird if you need to try on multiple styles to find a fit that feels great.

And yes… 60 year old’s wear lingerie.  So do 90 year old’s…  You can too!

6. Touch yourself.

When women are told to touch themselves, they most likely think “masturbation”…  but we want you to expand on that idea and think about the ways you can touch yourself and appreciate your body outside of masturbation with orgasm as the finish line.

Yes… Masturbating is a great way to get connected to your sexy self (and we highly recommend), but try to incorporate spending an extra 5 minutes in the shower touching your body with gentle loving movement.  Maybe rub your inner thigh while watching a movie.  Maybe use your vibrator behind your ears, on your neck, down your arms, along the inside of your legs…  Are you catching our drift?

7. Get naked!

Lounge around your place naked. The idea is that you will feel more comfortable in your own body and realize that you are beautiful. Even if it’s just to pour your morning coffee or to fold the laundry.  Being naked is a gift.  It can also be a profound aphrodisiac.

8. Smile for 1 minute.

Smiling creates dopamine and serotonin in the body which immediately calms the body and makes people feel happy.  This is why putting a smile on your face is so powerful.  It literally changes the chemicals in your body so you can increase happiness.

So why does this help you feel sexier…

Smiling builds confidence.  It’s also a wonderful way to attract the people you love and invite them closer to you.  Try walking down the street with a smile on your face. You are worthy of attention!

At bloom we know that every woman can be sexy if they chose, and it’s our mission to make you believe it. It’s time to feel your sex appeal. A woman who feels sexy is sexy.